'Story' iphija kids look minds in the conversation

Parent-child "story conversation" 

Kim Yoo-mi's gender is difficult to know the mind of another son. The child is outside the blunt side of hanteneun-year-old mother. Not to talk of this and that I ask questions in mind will not ever ask questions. The teen is contemplating how to deal would have to come soon. You might want to pre-sex child does not care, I do not know whether to say the level should to a certain extent.

The increasing number of dual-income children is no shortage of talk time parents and children spend most time in school because the school and the chin. Although there are times conversations are a lot of difficult to be good parents about going to pull any conversation depending on the child gender or age, personality. By using the story to get around this is to help communicate easy to see into the psychological state of children. If you make up a story pass the contents because consensus is formed and understand it well.

9 dice thrown out picture released by the story material

Parent education program on June 11 in Seoul Gangseo am Educational Support Agency opened the "all parents (through parent education warmth). Elementary grades 3-4 was time for the children and parents talk with their children to take advantage of the 'Story Cubes. Referred to as the so-called "dice story" story cubes are arranged to figure out a different picture was painted by throwing dice to six faces nine is a board game to build a story of their own. Since making the story fit the picture of his nine squeeze the order directly to the Diocese of useful learning and fun that children are attracted to the conversation.

Talk time scarce parent-child 
Child gender, age, according to individual 
Blots many parents tell children well anhaneun

Parish advantage, such as "Story Cubes" 
Look mind, emotions or experiences such as child 
Action to fix the problem 'talk therapy'

Look the same house illustration one chapter jangseonhwa SP (SP) Education Research "conducted the day lecture some kids' There is a girl crying after soul my mother 'and to any child in a happy home to a lot of' mom dad talk Inc. is a kids' she says. Usually when people make a story saying that the provision was mainly self-loading their experiences and feelings. "

Story Cubes are also now know the child psychology because empathy for your feelings when you create a useful anywhere, but to bring the story eoneoryeok, imagination, stories, etc. configurability. Children gamyeo pieces to fit the story also explore their own actions and thoughts. The position of the parents did not know the child experiences is also an opportunity to learn indirectly. If you do not want a fixed picture of the products sold and bought a wooden cube parents and children can create their own drawn into the picture.

Kim "Come to talk with a story cube 'or is seoun when more chaenggyeot brother than' showed the 'mom and all alone I want to spend time", "I hope to go often to visit each other family, including the child's inner thoughts." he said.

Chapter intestine can also move the hearts of men, nor be able to understand each other if a natural "dialog makes the story. Look at what he said even minor everyday put the story. " For example, when you are talking as to make the juice to kids' magic juice that reminds force "that also built yeojul passed, or a tired child pat the name" touch mom to get rid of anxiety. Even if you have a family outing together blowing "family trip that know each other's minds, that story topics, the conversation may change attitudes and family while traveling information.

Children to talk Peeper 'child behavior' rather than

If you find a problem or should I hearing the usual kid going to let the conversation in any way. Mr. Hee Jin Kim put the elementary school daughter to accept as it is in the guise of a "child, I do not go and look at what the other kids stand out timid and careless understand the anger me. It said it is difficult to express it according to the child's eye level. " If this happens, try good to take advantage of the 'talking cure'.

Narrative therapy is a branch of New Zealand created by Michael White and family therapist David Abs turn of Australian-born family counseling. Focusing on the client's subjective experience that will help the clients to make the right understanding and interpretation of their reality.

Yigyeonguk talk therapy President of the society: "We usually mothaneunde not talk to isolate the actors and issues talk therapy refers to stories around the actor's behavior," said "The original story of issues central to separate the actors and issues (in the right direction ) it would have to produce again, "the story.

In fact, parents are the child samgon own problems with a child's problems seem sometimes. For example, H. D. eyidi (ADHD) symptoms, even if the child seems to focus on the moment there is be good parents often told, 'always, children are not always focused. " Place the pathological diagnosis or a specific point will discard the episode might be said to define the identity of the child, "You like children." The identity of the child is not present as all or part of one entity of the child from the parent perspective.

Child, "I do not have too much confidence," said the parents, or "My child is kleptomania," said one of them made the story even speak. The Chairman: "Behold recreated as when kids talk 'problematic story' peeps does He Jin million (how the dialogue to focus on specific problems), kids 'stories favorite' to draw the prize of becoming yourself," he advised .

It is important in this process is to separate the people and issues. Do not look for a meaning that people say that this is a problem in itself ll. When a child is to be said, "Nope often hard to move because of depression." "You, what do you that much is hard every depressed!" Not to be called "Depression is the genie different I came to find when?" "Depression is a do you talk say to you? "I asked muleumyeo story approach. Peering into the 'too gloomy' feeling that is not the problem 'depression' itself is a conversation that you want to change that to find the child.

The president "believes that when parents talk to kids say parents should be aware that I have a haphazard, like a child." The standard of Shem've gotta do a good parent. Back to the rhetoric and praise and do not finish the story now complete (solve) it is important that the stepping-stone to find an excuse, even if the alternative is not the story of a child makes heart problems themselves, "he said.